Redirecting Negativity: The Power of Positive Thoughts

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There’s a saying that we become what we focus on, and the other day I was reminded just how true that can be. I was scrolling through social media when I came across a post highlighting some of the positive changes happening around the world. It was encouraging to see. Then I read the comments.

Instead of people celebrating the good, I found comment after comment of anger, criticism, and hostility. It caught me off guard, although I probably shouldn’t have been surprised. Negativity seems to spread so easily these days.

For a moment, I felt myself wanting to respond. I wanted to defend the positive message. But then I stopped and asked myself, Is it really worth giving away my peace? The answer was no.

I realized that arguing would only cost me my time and precious energy—energy that could be spent creating something beautiful, encouraging someone, or simply enjoying the day.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. But I also believe our words matter. They have the power to lift people up or bring them down.

One of my favorite sayings has always been:

“If you don’t have something nice to say, don’t say anything at all.”

None of us are immune to negative thoughts. We all experience frustration and disappointment. The important thing is recognizing those moments and gently redirecting ourselves before negativity takes root.

Our attitudes create a ripple effect. Kindness encourages kindness, while negativity often spreads just as quickly. Every interaction leaves an impression, whether we realize it or not.

One of my favorite quotes from Gandhi says:

“I will not let anyone walk through my mind with their dirty feet.”

I love that reminder because we can’t control what others say or do, but we can choose what we allow to live in our minds.

Life isn’t perfect, and it isn’t always fair. But each day we have a choice. We can add a little more light to the world or a little more darkness.

I hope we all choose kindness. You never know how much your words might brighten someone’s day.

Thank you so much for stopping by. Wishing you a wonderful day!

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Small Acts, Big Impact: 10 Ways to Pay It Forward

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In a world that can sometimes feel rushed and overwhelming, small acts of kindness still have the power to make a lasting impact. Paying it forward doesn’t have to involve grand gestures or expensive gifts. Often, it’s the little moments of generosity, encouragement, or compassion that mean the most.

The beautiful thing about kindness is that it tends to ripple outward. One thoughtful action can inspire another, creating a chain reaction that reaches people you may never even meet.

Here are 10 simple ways to pay it forward and spread a little more goodness into the world.

1. Leave a Kind Note

A handwritten note, encouraging message, or unexpected compliment can completely change someone’s day. Leave a positive sticky note in a library book, write an uplifting comment online, or send a thoughtful text to a friend who may need it.

2. Help Someone Without Being Asked

Hold the door open, help carry groceries, return a shopping cart, or offer assistance to someone who looks overwhelmed. Small thoughtful actions often leave the biggest impression.

3. Donate Items You No Longer Use

Clothing, books, art supplies, canned food, blankets, and household items can become valuable resources for someone else. Clearing out your space while helping others creates a win-win situation.

4. Buy Someone a Coffee or Meal

A small surprise like paying for the person behind you in line or treating someone to lunch can create an unforgettable moment of kindness. It doesn’t have to cost much to make someone feel seen and appreciated.

5. Offer Genuine Encouragement

Sometimes people simply need someone to believe in them. Compliment a coworker’s hard work, encourage a friend pursuing a dream, or tell someone you admire their creativity or resilience.

6. Volunteer Your Time

Helping at a food pantry, animal shelter, community event, or local organization can make a real difference. Time and presence are often just as valuable as financial support.

7. Share Your Knowledge or Skills

If you’re good at something, consider helping someone who is learning. Whether it’s art, photography, writing, gardening, or technology, sharing knowledge is a generous gift that can build confidence and opportunity.

8. Be Extra Patient

Patience is an underrated form of kindness. Offering grace to a tired cashier, listening fully during a conversation, or simply slowing down enough to be understanding can have a bigger impact than you think.

9. Reach Out to Someone Who May Feel Alone

A quick phone call, message, or visit can mean the world to someone who’s struggling or isolated. Many people quietly carry heavy burdens, and a small connection can remind them they matter.

10. Spread Positivity Online

The internet can always use more kindness. Leave supportive comments, celebrate someone’s accomplishments, share inspiring content, or simply avoid adding negativity to someone’s day.

The Ripple Effect of Kindness

One of the most beautiful things about paying it forward is that kindness tends to multiply. A single thoughtful action can inspire someone else to do the same, creating a ripple effect far beyond what we can see.

You never truly know what another person may be going through. A smile, encouraging word, or small act of generosity might arrive at exactly the right moment.

And the best part? Paying it forward often lifts your own spirit too.

Thank you so much for stopping by the blog today. I hope this post inspires you to spread a little extra kindness wherever you go. Wishing you a beautiful, joyful, and amazing day ahead!

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Studio Update – Expressions of Love

I’ve been working on creating a new design for the Expressions of Love Collection and this is what I came up with. It’s an organic design with beautiful hearts, outlined in glistening gold. I collaged a paper doily to the background for a bit of romance and it can be seen on each heart.

These 3 paintings were created on 1.5 inch thick canvases making them ideal as a shelf sitter and the perfect décor for a desk, shelf or counter. Plus they can also be hung on the wall. They will all be up in my Etsy Shop by the end of this weekend.

Below is a time lapse process video of me painting a layer on the Rose Pink Heart. I’m working on getting over my camera shyness 😅

Thanks for stopping by, have a fantastic weekend!!

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“My goal as an artist is to create art that makes people look at the world in a different way.” ~Autumn de Forest

Studio Update

I’m starting a new practice this year. I’m playing with different color combinations and various mediums on 9×12″ watercolor paper. After the painting is done I’ll add notes on the back of what I did, the colors and mediums I used and what I discovered about the process.

This abstract was made with watercolors, acrylic paints and inks, alcohol inks and pen. I was very happy with this color combination, it turned out pretty nice. What’s making me laugh though, is how everyone sees something totally different.

What do you see in this painting?

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“Art is the only serious thing in the world. And the artist is the only person who is never serious.” ~Oscar Wilde

Shop Update

This weekend I will be taking an official break and enjoying the holidays with family and friends.

The Exclusive Sale just for my subscribers has been extended until this Friday, at midnight. So if you haven’t had the chance, make sure to hop over to my Etsy Shop and Give a Gift that Inspires!

Get 25% Off Original Paintings and Christmas Ornaments (Enter code MERRY25 at checkout!!)

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Shop Update

This is the latest addition to my Etsy Shop, ‘Creating Memories’ (pictured above). This fun whimsical ornament is painted on a 3×4 inch canvas and is hung with silver ribbon. It’s a happy uplifting painting.

Just a reminder for all my subscribers, make sure to stop by my Etsy Shop and get 25% Off Original Paintings and Christmas Ornaments. Just enter code MERRY25 at checkout to receive 25% Off your Total Purchase!! Don’t Delay, Sale ends 12/7/2023!!

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Studio Update

I’m working on finishing the last of the ornaments and getting them into my Etsy Shop. The latest addition is ‘Home Sweet Home’ (pictured above). This was painted on a 3×4 inch canvas and is hung with ribbon. It’s a very happy painting and is one of my favorites.

I also recently added ‘Baby it’s cold outside!’ shown in the video below. This ornament is painted on a 4×4 inch canvas with an adorable little snowman just outside the door⛄

I’ll let you know when I add more but these are included in the ongoing sale.

Hope you have a wonderful weekend, thanks for stopping by!!

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Both ornaments, “Making Spirits Bright” and “The Wonder of Christmas” are now available in my Etsy Shop if you’re interested. Stay tuned for more details on an Exclusive Offer which will be announced here and available only to you!

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Shop Update – New Photos Available

I’ve been busy working behind the scenes in my Etsy Shop. The latest update is that I’ve added 2 new photos to the shop. A beautiful mountain view photographed in Shenandoah National Park, Virginia and a stunning close up of a Sunflower Bloom.

Don’t forget, there’s still time to take advantage of the “Exclusive” Sale available only to my loyal subscribers. Original Paintings and Christmas Ornaments are on Sale until 12/6/23! Just enter code MERRY25 at checkout and receive 25% Off your Purchase.

Thanks for your support!!

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